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 You are a Christian, but  Achraf Hakimi  is your marriage mentor—cos of his tactics?!? Dey play , just  dey play😂 Cos, if you have an iota of wisdom  (1st Corinthians 1:24, Proverbs 8) , you'll realise that  his marriage is  not & shouldn't  be a Christian's criterion for marriage . The Biblical marriage principles are clear: 1. Don't be unequally yoked. —2nd Corinthians 6:14 2. God is the surest builder of a home. —Psalms 127:1 3. Cleave to your wife. —Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5, Ephesians 5:31 4. Agree to walk together. —Amos 3:3 5. Your home should honour & reflect Jesus Christ. —Ephesians 5:21-33 6. Your cleaving is for a greater purpose. —Genesis 2:18, Proverbs 27:17 7. Your home should fulfill God's intended purposes for marriage; Companionship (Genesis 2:18), Reflection of God (Genesis 1:26-28), & Legacy (Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 28:18-20). In lieu of this I have to ask,  dear believer  of Christ Jesus, are you aware o...

  Okay... #fbf time 💃🏻 It was on a bright Tuesday afternoon, on the 3rd of January, 2023, that I got served😫. I woke up with no inclination of the breakfast that awaited me that day.🥺 And, 'YES' inedible breakfasts aren't sweet😑—as you know—if you've ever been served one. Before you deduce what hasn't be said/written,  #becalmingdown o🤗 Cos it wasn't relationship breakfast😂, it was job-breakfast.🥺 Hope you're not disappointed in this my story cos it's not love matter😏. Please, keep reading cos God has a message somewhere for you—YES—you 🤎  It all started with what seemed like a stroke of fate, that got I & my two friends this connection for a 'supposedly' awesome job— you know,😉 with so much cash potential. And, before you ask/wonder, it's a legit/legal, moral job .😀 We've been waiting for this employment for a long while... but that's not the angle this my story is headed to. 🙄 Back to the #fbf .  On that beautiful ...

               I feel like I’m living a nightmare where I have the option to wake-up, but I choose to still be asleep 😴.  Ok...maybe 'nightmare' is me exaggerating and being a little bit dramatic. But, seriously, am  I the only one that took this eighteen (18) months plan hook, line and sinker. And, fastforward to three (3) years+— between Covid-19 & ASUU, I feel like I'm on a pendulum. 🥺 What do I mean about the nightmare, you ask!?! Lol...wait, as a typical African (Nigerian), I'm already saying, 'God forbid!' 'This nightmare is not my portion!' And, I'm not suspended on any pendulum'🙄🤣 Alright...before we digress too much, let’s take a mini trip to early this year, 2022. I lost an international job that was nearly within my grasp. Was it God’s will or a case of unpreparedness. Honestly, I’ve got no idea. After scaling through the written and two oral interviews, I was called in one Saturday for briefing, and was informed to re...