Gracified Blog

I just want to forget how the whole world seems wrong most times. It's like the more one strives on his own, the more difficult everything seems to appear most times. I ask, why strive when the productivity of one’s effort is futile? Then I came across a passage in the scripture which emphasizes on grace; it speaks that "it's not of him that willeth nor of him that runneth but of him whom the Lord Almighty showeth mercy". That scripture I believe is the being of most of our existence, cos no matter how much one struggles, if the grace of God is missing in such a man’s life, then all his efforts are futile. And to buttress this, I recall the passage which says; "I will give mercy to whom I want". So, I guess my questions are; 📍1: How do you know such grace has been bestowed upon you? 📍2: Can one obtain the grace if you have not been given naturally, like Jacob was given right form the womb?—cos the uniqueness of Gods' grace is that it will ONLY be given...

The old saying that,  ‘Revenge is a dish best served cold’ , is without doubt, the motto of some many people, notwithstanding their religious belief. As it relates to relationships, the question is,  who do you serve the cold dish of revenge? Relationships are always dicey; they have this pattern of leaving one vulnerable. Especially if you think that you are in love with your partner. Many have taken the road of suicide at the end of a painful breakup; whether the relationship is at the friendship boat, or courtship boat, or marriage boat, its inconsequential. The ratio of the heartbreak is directly proportional to the investment don by the most hurt. Some put in as much as eleven years of their life to a relationship that goes sour at a point and at such crossroads; they lose their identity or sense of worth. While some breakups are amicable, others simply aren’t. They leave one person without closure.  He or she is left to wander for a very long time,  wh...