Gracified Blog

  Okay... #fbf time 💃🏻 It was on a bright Tuesday afternoon, on the 3rd of January, 2023, that I got served😫. I woke up with no inclination of the breakfast that awaited me that day.🥺 And, 'YES' inedible breakfasts aren't sweet😑—as you know—if you've ever been served one. Before you deduce what hasn't be said/written,  #becalmingdown o🤗 Cos it wasn't relationship breakfast😂, it was job-breakfast.🥺 Hope you're not disappointed in this my story cos it's not love matter😏. Please, keep reading cos God has a message somewhere for you—YES—you 🤎  It all started with what seemed like a stroke of fate, that got I & my two friends this connection for a 'supposedly' awesome job— you know,😉 with so much cash potential. And, before you ask/wonder, it's a legit/legal, moral job .😀 We've been waiting for this employment for a long while... but that's not the angle this my story is headed to. 🙄 Back to the #fbf .  On that beautiful ...

               I feel like I’m living a nightmare where I have the option to wake-up, but I choose to still be asleep 😴.  Ok...maybe 'nightmare' is me exaggerating and being a little bit dramatic. But, seriously, am  I the only one that took this eighteen (18) months plan hook, line and sinker. And, fastforward to three (3) years+— between Covid-19 & ASUU, I feel like I'm on a pendulum. 🥺 What do I mean about the nightmare, you ask!?! Lol...wait, as a typical African (Nigerian), I'm already saying, 'God forbid!' 'This nightmare is not my portion!' And, I'm not suspended on any pendulum'🙄🤣 Alright...before we digress too much, let’s take a mini trip to early this year, 2022. I lost an international job that was nearly within my grasp. Was it God’s will or a case of unpreparedness. Honestly, I’ve got no idea. After scaling through the written and two oral interviews, I was called in one Saturday for briefing, and was informed to re...

 According to SaharaReports, the indigenes of Orlu in Imo state are experiencing unrest as Nigerian Military launches air strikes in the town. Apparently,  they want to dislodge the Eastern Security (ESN) operatives in Orlu, and as such they best approach is to make the indigenes feel unsafe in their fatherland. Read more: http://saharareporters.com/2021/02/18/tension-nigerian-military-conducts-air-strikes-orlu-search-esn 

Expectant parents, Meghan and Harry have announced that they are expecting their second child. Piers Morgan as expected has made his feelings known about the couple's goodnews. One could guess that Piers isn't ready to let Harry and Meghan have their peace anytime soon.

    Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh's ex-husband, Churchill Olakunle has publicly celebrated his 'best friend' and 'sister', Rose Meurer. Below are few reactions from online, fuelled by the fact that Churchill and Rose have always previously declared their relationship as purely platonic—brother and sister love. 

I just want to forget how the whole world seems wrong most times. It's like the more one strives on his own, the more difficult everything seems to appear most times. I ask, why strive when the productivity of one’s effort is futile? Then I came across a passage in the scripture which emphasizes on grace; it speaks that "it's not of him that willeth nor of him that runneth but of him whom the Lord Almighty showeth mercy". That scripture I believe is the being of most of our existence, cos no matter how much one struggles, if the grace of God is missing in such a man’s life, then all his efforts are futile. And to buttress this, I recall the passage which says; "I will give mercy to whom I want". So, I guess my questions are; 📍1: How do you know such grace has been bestowed upon you? 📍2: Can one obtain the grace if you have not been given naturally, like Jacob was given right form the womb?—cos the uniqueness of Gods' grace is that it will ONLY be given...

The old saying that,  ‘Revenge is a dish best served cold’ , is without doubt, the motto of some many people, notwithstanding their religious belief. As it relates to relationships, the question is,  who do you serve the cold dish of revenge? Relationships are always dicey; they have this pattern of leaving one vulnerable. Especially if you think that you are in love with your partner. Many have taken the road of suicide at the end of a painful breakup; whether the relationship is at the friendship boat, or courtship boat, or marriage boat, its inconsequential. The ratio of the heartbreak is directly proportional to the investment don by the most hurt. Some put in as much as eleven years of their life to a relationship that goes sour at a point and at such crossroads; they lose their identity or sense of worth. While some breakups are amicable, others simply aren’t. They leave one person without closure.  He or she is left to wander for a very long time,  wh...